It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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The solution as consumers is - perhaps surprisingly - to take adverts very, very seriously. We should ask ourselves what it is that we find lovely in them - the visions of friendship, togetherness, repose, or whatever. And then consider what would actually help us find these qualities in our lives.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We should critically assess advertisements to understand the qualities they promote and seek those qualities in our own lives.
Alain De Botton suggests that rather than ignoring advertisements as mere marketing tactics, we should take them seriously. By reflecting on the ideals they present, such as friendship and togetherness, we can identify what we truly desire in our lives and take steps to cultivate those qualities ourselves.
Themes
AdvertisingSelf-ReflectionQualitiesDesiresLife
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about consumerism, you might cite this quote to emphasize the importance of introspection regarding our desires.
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