When the pain overtakes you, reach inside. Gather the broken pieces, and hand them to God. Ask Him to remake your heart. Different, this time. Stronger. More beautiful. This is how we are made, and remade by the Maker.
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If you want to kill something, neglect it. It happens in both good and bad. Neglect a relationship, it dies. Neglect your iman, it dies. But the same principal applies when you want to kill something like a thought or a desire. Neglect it, it dies.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Neglecting something, whether a relationship or a desire, can lead to its deterioration or death.
This quote by Yasmin Mogahed emphasizes the principle that neglect leads to decay in various aspects of life, be it relationships or internal struggles like desires and faith. It highlights the importance of attention and care in both nurturing and overcoming challenges, suggesting that the act of ignoring something can result in its inevitable decline.
Themes
NeglectRelationshipsImanThoughtsDesiresAttention
In practice
Example use cases
In a relationship talk, one might say, 'Remember, if you want to kill your relationship, just neglect it.'
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