How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Stephen CoveyRead
In the space between stimulus (what happens) and how we respond, lies our freedom to choose. Ultimately, this power to choose is what defines us as human beings. We may have limited choices but we can always choose. We can choose our thoughts, emotions, moods, our words, our actions; we can choose our values and live by principles. It is the choice of acting or being acted upon.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our freedom to choose how to respond to stimuli defines our humanity.
This quote emphasizes that while we cannot control external events, we possess the inherent power to choose our reactions. This ability to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively is what distinguishes us as human beings and allows us to live according to our values and principles.
Themes
FreedomChoiceResponseHumanityValues
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech about personal development, one might say this quote to inspire an audience to take control of their reactions.
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