Why can't women get along? Because we're afraid. We're afraid to be vulnerable. We're afraid to be soft. We're afraid to be hurt. But most of all, we're afraid of our power. So we become controlling and aggressive and vicious.
Iyanla VanzantRead
Spirituality is not about what you know. It is about growing, deepening, evolving and becoming a living reflection of your spiritual identity.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Spirituality involves personal growth and reflection rather than just knowledge.
This quote emphasizes that true spirituality is not just a matter of acquiring knowledge or information about spiritual concepts, but rather it is an ongoing process of growth and transformation. It suggests that one's spiritual journey should focus on deepening self-awareness and truly embodying the values and principles that reflect one's spiritual identity.
Themes
SpiritualityGrowthReflectionIdentityTransformation
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote during a meditation workshop to highlight the importance of personal growth.
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