Reading is the unbelievably healthy way _x000D_ my attention deficit disorder medicates itself. _x000D_ Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it's a way to _x000D_ make contact with reality after a day of making things up.
I am still amazed at the amount of Christian charity [Wellesley] stuck us all with, a kind of glazed politeness in the face of boredom and stupidity. Tolerance, in the worst sense of the word. How marvelous it would have been to go to a women's college that encouraged impoliteness, that rewarded aggression, that encouraged argument.
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What this quote means
The quote critiques superficial politeness and advocates for more genuine, aggressive discourse in educational settings.
Nora Ephron's quote expresses frustration with the veneer of politeness she encountered at Wellesley College, suggesting that such behavior stifles meaningful debate and authenticity. She longs for a learning environment that rewards assertiveness and critical engagement rather than forcing students to conform to a culture of bland tolerance, emphasizing the value of robust discussion and debate in educational contexts.
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Example use cases
In a speech to students about the importance of critical thinking, one might use this quote to highlight the need for open debate.
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