Virtually all of life's ills boil down to mindlessness. If you can understand someone else's perspective, then there's no reason to be angry at them, envy them, steal from them.
Ellen LangerRead
Stress is a function not of events, but of our view of those events.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Stress arises not from external events but from our perceptions and interpretations of those events.
This quote by Ellen Langer emphasizes the idea that stress is largely a subjective experience influenced by how individuals perceive and interpret situations around them. It suggests that it is not the events themselves that create stress, but rather our own mental framing of those events, and therefore, shifting our perspective can alter our experience of stress.
Themes
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In practice
Example use cases
During a presentation, you might quote this to encourage others to focus on their mindset rather than the pressure of the audience.
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