It seems that fighting is a game where everybody is the loser.
Zora Neale HurstonRead
Tain't no use in you cryin' . . . But folks is meant to cry 'bout somethin' or other. Better leave things de way dey is. Youse young yet. No tellin' whut mout happen befo' you die.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Acceptance of life's hardships is essential, while understanding that change is inevitable.
This quote reflects the notion that crying over life's struggles often doesn't change the situation, yet it acknowledges the human tendency to feel deeply about matters. Hurston suggests that while it may be better to accept things as they are, life is full of surprises, emphasizing the unpredictability and potential for change in one's life journey.
Themes
LifeCryingAcceptanceChangeYouth
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about resilience, this quote can highlight the importance of facing challenges with acceptance.
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