I have a theory about marriage, Monsieur Boustouler. And it’s that nearly always you will know within two weeks if it’s going to work. It’s astonishing how many people remain shackled for years, decades even, in a protracted and mutual state of self-delusion and false hope when in fact they had their answer in those first two weeks.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that people often ignore clear signs about the viability of their marriage early on.
Khaled Hosseini posits that in the context of marriage, individuals often possess a subconscious understanding of whether their union will succeed within a short period, typically two weeks. However, many choose to overlook these insights, leading to prolonged periods of unhappiness and delusion, as they cling to false hopes instead of facing the reality of their situation.
In practice
This quote can be used in a marriage counseling session to encourage clients to reflect on their early feelings.
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