You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
That’s the thing about a human life-there’s no control group, no way to ever know how any of us would have turned out if any variables had been changed.
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What this quote means
Life is unpredictable and unique for each individual, with no way to compare outcomes if circumstances were different.
This quote by Elizabeth Gilbert highlights the complexity and unpredictability of human existence. It suggests that every person's life is shaped by a multitude of variables, and since there is no way to create a 'control group' to compare different life outcomes, we can only embrace our own unique journeys and the experiences that come with them. The essence of this idea is that life is inherently uncertain, and each individual's path is influenced by countless factors that cannot be replicated or controlled.
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During a motivational speech about embracing life's uncertainties.
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When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
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But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
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