But this time I'm not to blame; I want you to believe that. I simply slipped into those violets. No, I want to be really truthful. I am a little to blame. The sky, you know, was gold, and the ground all blue, and for a moment he looked like some one in a book.
Each thing I do, I rush through so I can do something else. In such a way do the days pass - -a blend of stock car racing and the never ending building of a gothic cathedral. Through the windows of my speeding car I see all that I love falling away: books unread, jokes untold, landscapes unvisited.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects the hurry of life and the potential loss of cherished experiences while rushing through daily tasks.
In this quote, Stephen Dobyns expresses a poignant observation about the fast pace of modern life, where the constant rush to complete tasks and engage in new activities leads to a sense of loss. He compares this experience to a blend of fast racing and the painstaking construction of a cathedral, illustrating the tension between speed and meaningful accomplishment. The imagery of love and beauty slipping away—represented by unread books and unvisited landscapes—highlights the importance of slowing down to appreciate life's moments instead of just rushing through them.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about work-life balance, I might use this quote to emphasize the importance of slowing down to appreciate what truly matters.
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