You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
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You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That's the only thing you should be trying to control.
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What this quote means
Choosing your thoughts wisely is crucial for personal control and growth.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the importance of consciously selecting our thoughts, similar to how we choose our clothing each day. She suggests that by cultivating this power over our mind, we can gain control over our lives, indicating that our mental state directly influences our experiences and outcomes.
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ThoughtsMindControlPowerChoice
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In a motivational speech about mental well-being.
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