Quitting, for me, means not giving up, but moving on; changing direction not because something doesn’t agree with you, but because you don’t agree with something. It’s not a complaint, in other words, but a positive choice, and not a stop in one’s journey, but a step in a better direction. Quitting-whether a job or a habit-means taking a turn so as to be sure you’re still moving in the direction of your dreams.
And if travel is like love, it is, in the end, mostly because it's a heightened state of awareness, in which we are mindful, receptive, undimmed by familiarity and ready to be transformed. That is why the best trips, like the best love affairs, never really end.
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What this quote means
Travel and love both awaken our senses and transform our perceptions of the world.
In this quote, Pico Iyer compares the experiences of travel and love, suggesting that both involve a profound awakening of awareness and sensitivity to the world around us. He emphasizes that the most meaningful journeys and relationships are those that elevate our consciousness, allowing us to appreciate new perspectives and experiences without the dulling effects of routine or familiarity. Ultimately, Iyer implies that both travel and love have lasting impacts on our lives, as they transform us in ways that remain long after the experiences themselves have ended.
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This quote can be used as a reflection during a travel blog post about personal growth experienced through journeys.
More from Pico Iyer
All quotes →I think one reason, obviously, that I spend so much time in one place is that I've been lucky enough to travel a lot, and now there are other different, invisible trains that are more interesting to me.
I've never meditated in my life. I don't practice yoga nor any religion. I'm a tourist on the realm of stillness.
We travel to open our hearts and eyes and learn more about the world than our newspapers will accommodate.
I'm no Buddhist monk, and I can't say I'm in love with renunciation in itself, or traveling an hour or more to print out an article I've written, or missing out on the N.B.A. Finals. But at some point, I decided that, for me at least, happiness arose out of all I didn't want or need, not all I did.
The one thing perhaps that technology hasn't always given us is a sense of how to make the wisest use of technology.
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