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True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings.
Pema Chodron
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What this quote means

True compassion arises from recognizing our shared humanity rather than simply feeling pity for others.

This quote by Pema Chodron emphasizes that genuine compassion emerges not from a sense of superiority or a desire to help those who are less fortunate, but from the understanding that we are all interconnected. It suggests that compassion is rooted in the awareness of our shared experiences and struggles, fostering a deeper sense of empathy and connection with all beings.

Themes

CompassionKinshipHumanityEmpathyConnection

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be shared in a speech about the importance of community and support during charity events.

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