Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
Baltasar GracianRead
True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island... to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing.
Interpretation
True friendship enhances our lives and helps us cope with hardships.
This quote emphasizes the transformative power of genuine friendship, suggesting that true friends amplify our joys and help mitigate our sorrows. The metaphor of life without friends being akin to being stranded on a desert island highlights the isolation one might feel without companionship, while recognizing that finding and maintaining a loyal friend is a rare and invaluable gift.
In practice
During a speech at a graduation ceremony.
Help others solve their problems; standing farther away, you can often see matters more clearly than they do. . . The greatest service you can render someone else is helping him or her help themselves.
It is a novel kind of supremacy, the best that life can offer, to have as servants by skill those who by nature are our masters.
Advice is sometimes transmitted more successfully through a joke than grave teaching.
It is better to sleep on things beforehand than lie awake about them afterwards.
Two kinds of people are good at foreseeing danger: those who have learned at their own expense, and the clever people who learn a great deal at the expense of others.
The envious die not once, but as oft as the envied win applause.
One doesn't know, till one is a bit at odds with the world, how much one's friends who believe in one rather generously, mean to one.
A man's growth is seen in the successive choirs of his friends.
Thou wert my guide, philosopher, and friend.
But listen to me first and swear an oath to use all your eloquence and strength to look after me and protect me.
Friendship increases in visiting friends, but in visiting them seldom.
My war buddies, some were Americans, but some were Afghans. These were the guys that I fought alongside. We bled alongside each other; we mourned together. When I came home, these weren't people I could keep up with on Facebook.
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