It's very hard to turn your back once you're aware of what's going on, and you're aware of the injustices, and you're aware of the civilian casualties. It's much easier if you have no idea and you've never seen it.
As a Western woman in the Middle East, I am often put in a different category. I am sort of like the third sex. I am not treated like a man. I am not treated like a woman. I am just treated like a journalist. That is usually really helpful.
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The quote reflects the unique perspective of a Western woman navigating cultural differences in the Middle East, emphasizing her professional identity over gender roles.
Lynsey Addario's quote highlights her experience as a Western journalist in the Middle East, where she finds herself categorized differently than traditional gender norms would dictate. This distinction allows her to break free from the constraints typically associated with being either a man or a woman in that region, focusing instead on her role as a journalist, which can provide her an advantageous perspective and credibility in her work.
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This quote can be shared in discussions about women's empowerment in different cultural contexts.
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My strength is looking for composition and light, and I think those things come in the quieter times of war or photographing people affected on the margins of war - civilians, refugees; that is where I really excel.
Don't expect things to happen fast. Be empathetic with the people you are photographing. Don't be concerned about money.
If people really saw what was happening in Iraq and Afghanistan, then they might be marching in the streets to end wars. But you know, I think that no one ever sees because we're not allowed to see, and we're not allowed to publish what we do see. So it's quite difficult.
Look, I would say that anyone who does this work and doesn't have a strain of idealism is an adrenaline junkie or completely narcissistic. There is no other justification. You're risking your life, and if anything happens, it's our families who suffer tremendously.
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