Instead of fretting about getting everything done, why not simply accept that being alive means having things to do? Then drop into full engagement with whatever you're doing, and let the worry go.
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Whatever terrible things may have happened to you, only one thing allows them to damage your core self, and that is continued belief in them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Your beliefs shape your identity, and holding onto negative beliefs can harm your true self.
This quote by Martha Beck emphasizes the importance of our beliefs in shaping our identity and emotional health. It suggests that while we may experience difficult and traumatic events, it is our continued belief in these events that allows them to impact our core self, implying that releasing these negative beliefs is crucial for personal growth and healing.
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BeliefIdentitySelfHealingMindset
In practice
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In a motivational speech on overcoming adversity.
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