Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.
Lord ChesterfieldRead
Wit is so shining a quality that everybody admires it; most people aim at it, all people fear it, and few love it unless in themselves. A man must have a good share of wit himself to endure a great share of it in another.
Interpretation
Wit is admired but also feared, and it’s rare for people to appreciate it unless they possess it themselves.
This quote by Lord Chesterfield highlights the complex nature of wit, suggesting that while it is a highly valued quality that attracts admiration, it can also induce fear or discomfort when displayed by others. The quote implies that people generally find it challenging to appreciate wit unless they have a similar capability, as it can provoke feelings of insecurity or competition, emphasizing the importance of possessing wit oneself to fully appreciate it in others.
In practice
In a toast at a gathering, one might quote this to celebrate a friend's sharp wit.
Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.
Never seem wiser, nor more learned, than the people you are with. Wear your learning, like your watch, in a private pocket: and do not merely pull it out and strike it; merely to show that you have one.
If you can once engage people's pride, love, pity, ambition on your side, you need not fear what their reason can do against you.
Merit and knowledge will not gain hearts, though they will secure them when gained.
Firmness of purpose is one of the best instruments of success.
Knowledge may give weight, but accomplishments give luster, and many more people see than weigh.
I don't feel that no big stone should be put over my head, saying he did this, he did that. Unless there's something that I really did do. I believe I'm just ordinary. And I'd like for people to think of me that way, as just a guy that tried. Wanted to be loved by other people because he loved people.
If you've heard this story before, don't stop me, because I'd like to hear it again.
There is a monsterous deal of stupid quizzing, & common-place nonsense talked, but scarcely any wit.
I ask people why they have deer heads on their walls. They always say because it's such a beautiful animal. There you go. I think my mother is attractive, but I have photographs of her.
No one who has had "Taps" played for them has ever been able to hear it.
One great thing about getting old is that you can get out of all sorts of social obligations just by saying you're too tired.
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