When you stay present with your children, that’s where abundance is. And when you stay out of their business, that’s where everything you deserve in life is. When you’re in presence, there’s no story, and you are abundance. And you come to trust that space so often that you just eventually hang out as that, because there is nothing that can move you out of it, not even a perceived child or a perceived anything.
The Work always leaves you with less of a story. _x000D_ Who would you be without your story? _x000D_ You never know until you inquire. _x000D_ There is no story that is you or that leads to you. _x000D_ Every story leads away from you. _x000D_ Turn it around; undo it. _x000D_ You are what exists before all stories. _x000D_ You are what remains when the story is understood.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the distinction between our true selves and the narratives we create about our lives.
Byron Katie's quote suggests that our identities and existence are often overshadowed by the stories we tell ourselves. These narratives, while significant, can lead us away from our true essence. The work and experiences in life can leave us feeling depleted in our understanding of ourselves, highlighting the importance of inquiring within to uncover the truth of who we are beyond these stories. Ultimately, it invites us to recognize that our pure existence transcends the tales we weave.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational seminar about self-identity and awareness, this quote could serve as a reminder to focus on inner truth rather than external stories.
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An unquestioned mind is the world of suffering.
Hurt feelings or discomfort of any kind cannot be cause by another person. No one outside me can hurt me. That’s not a possibility. It’s only when I believe a stressful thought that I get hurt. And I’m the one who’s hurting me by believing what I think. This is very good news, because it means that I don’t have to get someone else to stop hurting me. I’m the one who can stop hurting me. It’s within my power.
I am a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality.
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