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Who can calculate the wounds inflicted, their depth and pain, by harsh and mean words spoken in anger? How pitiful a sight is a man who is strong in many ways but who loses all control of himself when some little thing, usually of no significant consequence, disturbs his equanimity.
Gordon B. Hinckley
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Harsh words spoken in anger can cause deep emotional pain, and losing control over minor disturbances highlights one's weakness.

This quote emphasizes the significant impact that angry words can have on individuals, pointing out that even the strongest among us can falter under stress. It serves as a reminder to be mindful of our responses to trivial issues, as they can lead to regrettable actions that hurt ourselves and others.

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Example use cases

Using this quote in a speech about emotional intelligence.

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