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All young women begin by believing they can change and reform the men they marry. They can't.
George Bernard Shaw
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Young women often think they can change their spouses, but this belief is misguided.

This quote by George Bernard Shaw reflects the common misconception among young women that they can influence or alter the behavior of their partners after marriage. It suggests that attempts to change another person, especially in terms of deep-seated traits or habits, are often futile and can lead to disappointment.

Themes

ChangeRelationshipsBeliefMarriageExpectations

In practice

Example use cases

This quote is relevant in discussions about marriage and expectations during a relationship seminar.

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