You think you're being broken but you're really being broken open...and that's where the healing happens, in those broken places...if you'll allow it.
Jane FondaRead
When you can't remember why you're hurt, that's when you're healed.
Interpretation
Healing occurs when the pain no longer affects your memory or consciousness.
This quote suggests that true healing transcends mere physical or emotional recovery; it occurs when the pain and trauma associated with an experience fade from memory. It highlights the importance of emotional resilience, indicating that forgetting the reasons for your hurt indicates you've reached a state of acceptance and healing.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming life's challenges.
You think you're being broken but you're really being broken open...and that's where the healing happens, in those broken places...if you'll allow it.
I was in my mid-40s. I was a bulimic, and I realized if I continue with this addiction of mine, I will not be able to continue doing my life. The older you get the more damage it does; it takes longer to recover from a binge. And it was very hard.
To make the revolution in the United States is a slow day by day job that requires patience and discipline. It is the only way to make it. . . . All I know is that despite the fact that I am one of the people who benefit from a capitalist society, I find that any system which exploits other people cannot and should not exist.
I know how gratifying it is not only to work in film but to be acknowledged by peers; producing 9 to 5 was an opportunity that I valued precisely because it’s so rarely in the hands of women.
Some people are surprised that the Republicans are waging a war on women, or that they voted against equal pay for women. I'm not surprised at all. In some ways, it may be a good thing. They're defending the patriarchy, which is a wounded beast! And wounded beasts are always dangerous.
Namby-pamby little routines that don't speed up your heartbeat and make you sweat aren't worth your while.
The poison leaves bit by bit, not all at once. Be patient. You are healing.
What I wanted to do was to paint sunlight on the side of a house.
A Stoic is someone who transforms fear into prudence, pain into transformation, mistakes into initiation, and desire into undertaking.
Doubt is a pain too lonely to know that faith is his twin brother.
Love. Healing. Help. Hope. The power of Christ to counter all troubles in all times—including the end of times. That is the safe harbor God wants for us in personal or public days of despair. That is the message with which the Book of Mormon begins, and that is the message with which it ends, calling all to 'come unto Christ, and be perfected in him' (Moroni 10:32).
Above the comforts of Base Camp, the expedition in fact became an almost Calvinistic undertaking. The ratio of misery to pleasure was greater by an order of magnitude than any mountain I'd been on; I quickly came to understand that climbing Everest was primarily about enduring pain. And in subjecting ourselves to week after week of toil, tedium and suffering, it struck me that most of us were probably seeking above all else, something like a state of grace.
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