Why can't women get along? Because we're afraid. We're afraid to be vulnerable. We're afraid to be soft. We're afraid to be hurt. But most of all, we're afraid of our power. So we become controlling and aggressive and vicious.
Iyanla VanzantRead
Do not be afraid to experience your emotions; they are the path to your soul. Emotions erupt to remind us we are alive, that we are human. And to let us know we are growing. Trust yourself enough to feel what you feel.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Embracing your emotions is essential for personal growth and understanding your true self.
This quote emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and experiencing our emotions as they guide us to our authentic selves. Iyanla Vanzant encourages us to trust our feelings, suggesting that emotions not only signify our humanity but also indicate our ongoing development and growth in life.
Themes
EmotionsGrowthSelf-DiscoveryTrustHumanity
In practice
Example use cases
During a mental health workshop discussing the importance of emotional awareness.
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