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It's amazing how words can do that, just shred your insides apart. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me - such bullshit.
Lauren Oliver
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What this quote means

Words have a profound impact on our emotions and well-being, often more than physical harm.

This quote highlights the powerful psychological effect that words can have on individuals. While the saying 'sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me' suggests that verbal insults are insignificant compared to physical harm, the author argues that this belief is misguided. Words can deeply wound and influence one’s emotional state, illustrating the importance of being mindful of the language we use and the potential consequences it can have on others.

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WordsHurtEmotionsImpactPsychology

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Example use cases

Using this quote in a speech about the power of language and communication.

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