When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
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Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Authenticity requires daily choices that reflect our true selves and honesty.
Brené Brown's quote emphasizes that authenticity is not a one-time achievement but a continuous process of making choices that reflect our true selves. It involves the courage to show up genuinely, to be honest in our interactions, and to allow ourselves to be seen as we truly are, which can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling life.
Themes
AuthenticityChoicesHonestySelfRealness
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about personal development, one might quote Brené Brown to highlight the importance of being true to oneself.
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