Don't be so anxious about it,' she laughed. 'I'm not used to being loved. I wouldn't know what to do; I never got the trick of it.' She looked down at him, shy and fatigued. 'So here we are. I told you years ago that I had the makings of Cinderella.' He took her hand; she drew it back instinctively and then replaced it in his. 'Beg your pardon. Not even used to being touched. But I'm not afraid of you, if you stay quiet and don't move suddenly.
Beautiful things grow to a certain height and then they fail and fade off, breathing out memories as they decay. And just as any period decays in our minds, the things of that period should decay too, and in that way they're preserved for a while in the few hearts like mine that react to them. Trying to preserve a century by keeping its relics up to date is like keeping a dying man alive by stimulants.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the transient nature of beauty and memories, emphasizing that decay is a natural part of existence.
F. Scott Fitzgerald's quote suggests that beautiful things eventually reach their peak and begin to fade, leaving behind memories as they decay. He implies that just as our memories of past periods also fade, the objects and relics of those times should be allowed to decay too, signifying that clinging to them is futile—like trying to artificially prolong life. This perspective invites us to appreciate beauty in its moment while acknowledging its impermanence, accepting that memories can serve to preserve the essence of that beauty in our hearts.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used as a reflection during a eulogy to honor a loved one.
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