The law is a gun, which if it misses a pigeon always kills a crow; if it does not strike the guilty, it hits someone else. As every crime creates a law, so in turn every law creates a crime.
Edward Bulwer-Lytton, 1St Baron LyttonRead
A chord, stronger or weaker, is snapped asunder in every parting, and time's busy fingers are not practiced in re-splicing broken ties. Meet again you may; will it be in the same way? With the same sympathies? With the same sentiments? Will the souls, hurrying on in diverse paths, unite once more, as if the interval had been a dream? Rarely, rarely!
Interpretation
What this quote means
Parting leads to changed connections that are difficult to restore. Time alters the nature of our relationships and feelings.
This quote emphasizes the fragile and complicated nature of human relationships. Every parting creates a disruption or a severing of emotional ties, which can be very hard to mend over time. The author reflects on the uncertainty of reuniting after separation: even if individuals meet again, the familiarity, shared feelings, and deep connections may no longer exist, suggesting that time and experiences alter our relationships in profound ways.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of cherishing relationships, one might say, 'As Edward Bulwer-Lytton once expressed, parting creates a disconnect that can rarely be mended.'
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