Etiquette requires the presumption of good until the contrary is proved.
Emily PostRead
Courtesy demands that you, when you are a guest, shall show neither annoyance nor disappointment--no matter what happens.
Interpretation
What this quote means
As a guest, you should remain polite and composed regardless of your feelings about the situation.
This quote by Emily Post emphasizes the importance of etiquette in social situations, particularly when you are a guest. It suggests that good manners require you to hide any negative emotions like annoyance or disappointment, thereby maintaining a pleasant atmosphere for both yourself and your host. By adhering to this guideline, you show respect and understanding, fostering positive relationships and social harmony.
Themes
EtiquetteMannersGuestPolitenessRespect
In practice
Example use cases
During a formal dinner party, when the food is not to your taste, remember to keep a smile and be gracious.
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