It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Embracing all emotions, both negative and positive, is essential to experiencing a full life.
Alain De Botton's quote reflects the idea that experiencing a range of emotions, including feelings of being lost, crazy, and desperate, is an integral part of living a good life. It suggests that just as we value optimism and certainty, we should also acknowledge the validity of our struggles and complexities, as they contribute to our overall human experience and growth.
Themes
EmotionsLifePhilosophyGrowthHuman Experience
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth, you could use this quote to illustrate the value of accepting difficult emotions.
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