Death is staring too long into the burning sun and the relief of entering a cool, dark room.
Elisabeth Kubler-RossRead
And after your death, when most of you for the first time realize what life here is all about, you will begin to see that your life here is almost nothing but the sum total of every choice you have made during every moment of your life. Your thoughts, which you are responsible for, are as real as your deeds. You will begin to realize that every word and every deed affects your life and has also touched thousands of lives.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of personal choices and thoughts in shaping one's life and legacy.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross's quote reflects on the significance of the choices we make and the thoughts we hold throughout our lives. It suggests that, upon reflection after death, one will understand that their existence is defined by the cumulative impact of their decisions and actions, highlighting the interconnectedness of human experiences and the lasting effects our words and deeds have on ourselves and others.
Themes
ChoicesThoughtsLifeImpactResponsibility
In practice
Example use cases
A speaker at a motivational seminar could use this quote to emphasize personal responsibility.
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