We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
Cato The ElderRead
It is a difficult matter to argue with the belly since it has no ears.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Arguing with someone who is only focused on their basic needs is futile.
This quote by Cato the Elder suggests that engaging in a debate or argument with someone who is driven purely by their basic instincts, such as hunger or other primal needs, is a waste of time. It highlights the idea that when someone's priorities are fixed on satisfying their immediate physical desires, they are unlikely to listen to reason or forego their cravings for more abstract arguments or discussions. Therefore, it's a reminder of the challenges of communication and persuasion when basic needs are in play.
Themes
ArgumentNeedsHungerPersuasionReason
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion about nutrition, one might refer to this quote to illustrate the importance of addressing hunger before discussing dietary choices.
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