It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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A dominant impulse on encountering beauty is to wish to hold on to it, to possess it and give it weight in one’s life. There is an urge to say, ‘I was here, I saw this and it mattered to me.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects our desire to capture and acknowledge beauty's impact on our lives.
Alain De Botton expresses a fundamental human desire to connect with beauty and to document our experiences of it. This instinct stems from a need for validation and significance, where encountering beauty compels us to mark our existence and affirm that we have truly lived and felt something meaningful.
Themes
BeautyExperienceExistenceMeaningMemory
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about art appreciation, one might use this quote to illustrate how beauty influences our lives.
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