Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
Don't worry if people don't recognize your merits; worry that you may not recognize theirs.
Interpretation
Value the contributions of others instead of seeking recognition for your own.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of humility and the recognition of the talents and merits of those around us. It suggests that rather than being preoccupied with whether others acknowledge our own achievements, we should focus on appreciating and understanding the worth and contributions of others, fostering a more respectful and harmonious environment.
In practice
During a team meeting, to remind everyone to acknowledge each otherβs contributions.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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The unhappy derive comfort from the misfortunes of others.
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