Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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Don't seek to have events happen as you wish, but wish them to happen as they do happen, and all will be well with you.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Accepting reality can lead to peace of mind.
This quote by Epictetus encourages individuals to embrace life as it unfolds instead of trying to control every aspect of it. By shifting our desires from wanting events to go our way to wishing for acceptance of what happens, we can find tranquility and contentment in our lives, regardless of external circumstances.
Themes
AcceptancePeaceRealityContentmentPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about embracing challenges and changes.
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Practice yourself, for heaven's sake, in little things, and thence proceed to greater.
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