Know what we did, Lucy? You and me? We spent our whole lives yearning. Isn't that the God damndest thing?
Richard YatesRead
Why did everything always change when all you wanted, all you had ever humbly asked of whatever God there might be, was that certain things be allowed to stay the same?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses a longing for stability in the face of inevitable change.
Richard Yates highlights the human desire for consistency and stability in life, contrasting it with the relentless nature of change. The speaker's plea to a higher power reflects a deep yearning for certain aspects of life to remain constant, suggesting that the unpredictability of existence can often be unsettling and difficult to accept.
Themes
ChangeStabilityLifeLongingDesire
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about navigating life's uncertainties, one could use this quote to emphasize the challenge of coping with change.
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