Time and trouble will tame an advanced young woman, but an advanced old woman is uncontrollable by any earthly force.
Dorothy L. SayersRead
In fact, there is perhaps only one human being in a thousand who is passionately interested in his job for the job's sake. The difference is that if that one person in a thousand is a man, we say, simply, that he is passionately keen on his job; if she is a woman, we say she is a freak.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights gender bias in perceptions of passion for work, suggesting that women are often labeled negatively for the same enthusiasm that is praised in men.
Dorothy L. Sayers points out the double standard in how society views passion for one's job based on gender. While a man who is dedicated and enthusiastic about his work is celebrated, a woman showing the same level of commitment is often viewed as an outlier or 'freak.' This quote urges us to reflect on the societal norms that skew our perceptions of dedication and professional interest based on gender.
Themes
Gender BiasWork PassionSocietal NormsDedicationDouble Standards
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a speech about gender equality in the workplace.
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