Time and trouble will tame an advanced young woman, but an advanced old woman is uncontrollable by any earthly force.
Dorothy L. SayersRead
But suppose one doesn't quite know which one wants to put first. Suppose," said Harriet, falling back on words which were not her own, "suppose one is cursed with both a heart and a brain?" "You can usually tell," said Miss de Vine, "by seeing what kind of mistakes you make. I'm quite sure that one never makes fundamental mistakes about the thing one really wants to do. Fundamental mistakes arise out of lack of genuine interest. In my opinion, that is.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote explores the conflict between emotion and intellect in decision-making.
In this quote, Dorothy L. Sayers discusses the struggle individuals face when trying to prioritize their feelings and intellect. She suggests that true fulfillment comes from understanding one's genuine interests, implying that mistakes often stem from a lack of passion or clarity about what one truly desires. By recognizing the sources of our errors, whether they arise from emotional impulses or logical reasoning, we can better navigate our choices in life.
Themes
DecisionEmotionIntellectPassionInterest
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about making impactful life choices.
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