Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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The father who does not teach his son his duties is equally guilty with the son who neglects them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
A father's role in teaching responsibility is crucial, and both the father and son are accountable for neglecting this duty.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the shared responsibility between a father and son in the context of learning and teaching duties. It suggests that a father who fails to impart essential life lessons and responsibilities to his son is just as culpable as the son who ignores these lessons. The essence of this statement highlights the importance of guidance in the family dynamic and the consequences of failing to fulfill these roles.
Themes
FatherSonResponsibilityTeachingGuiltFamilyDuties
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting seminar, to emphasize the importance of teaching children responsibility.
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