Etiquette requires the presumption of good until the contrary is proved.
The fault of bad taste is usually in over-dressing. Quality not effect, is the standard to seek for.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Bad taste often comes from trying too hard to impress with excessive adornment. It's more important to focus on quality than on appearance.
In this quote, Emily Post highlights that the true essence of taste lies in simplicity and quality, rather than in ostentatiousness or extravagance. She suggests that over-dressing or overdoing one's appearance can lead to a lack of authenticity and personal style, and emphasizes the importance of seeking high-quality items that reflect one's true taste and character rather than merely trying to create a striking visual effect.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used during a fashion seminar to emphasize the importance of quality over quantity.
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