I don't know what a softball question is. All I know is I have no agenda. I ask short questions, and I listen to the answer.
Larry KingRead
The first rule of my speaking is: listen!
Interpretation
Listening is essential for effective communication and understanding.
In the context of speaking, Larry King's quote emphasizes the importance of listening as a foundational skill. By actively listening, one can better connect with their audience, understand their needs, and respond appropriately, which ultimately enhances the quality of communication.
In practice
During a public speaking workshop, I emphasized that the first rule of effective speaking is to listen, drawing on Larry King's wisdom.
I don't know what a softball question is. All I know is I have no agenda. I ask short questions, and I listen to the answer.
Those who have succeeded at anything and don't mention luck are kidding themselves.
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I never use the word 'I' when I interview someone. I think it's irrelevant.
I just love asking questions. I love people. It's in my DNA. I'm cursed - and blessed.
I'm 80 years old, and I don't know what I'm going to be when I grow up.
If we communicated with something like music, we would never be misunderstood, because there is nothing in music to understand...... But until we find this new way of speaking, until we can find a nonapproximate vocabulary, nonsense words are the best thing we've got. Ifactifice is one such word.
There are some who speak well and write badly. For the place and the audience warm them, and draw from their minds more than they think of without that warmth.
Letters have to pass two tests before they can be classed as good: they must express the personality both of the writer and of the recipient.
Individual storytelling is incredibly powerful. We as journalists know intuitively what scientists of the brain are discovering through brain scans, which is that emotional stories tend to open the portals, and that once there's a connection made, people are more open to rational arguments.
The truth isn't the truth until people believe you, and they can't believe you if they don't know what you're saying, and they can't know what you're saying if they don't listen to you, and they won't listen to you if you're not interesting, and you won't be interesting unless you say things imaginatively, originally, freshly.
I speak and speak, [...] but the listener retains only the words he is expecting. [...] It is not the voice that commands the story: it is the ear.
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