Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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The gentleman has nine cares. In seeing he is careful to see clearly; in hearing he is careful to hear distinctly; in his looks he is careful to be kind, in his manner to be respectful, in his words to be sincere, in his work to be diligent. When in doubt he is careful to ask for information; when angry he has a care for the consequences; and when he sees a chance for gain, he thinks carefully whether the pursuits of it would be right.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The gentleman embodies careful consideration in all aspects of his life.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of being mindful and thoughtful in various areas of life, including perception, communication, actions, and decision-making. It suggests that a true gentleman practices discernment, kindness, respect, sincerity, diligence, and moral integrity in his interactions with others and in his pursuits, highlighting the virtues essential for personal and ethical development.
Themes
GentlemanWisdomMindfulnessCarefulnessIntegrity
In practice
Example use cases
During a leadership seminar, this quote can be shared to emphasize the importance of integrity and careful decision-making.
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