Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
The good man does not grieve_x000D_ that other people do not recognize his merits._x000D_ His only anxiety is lest he should fail to recognize theirs.
Interpretation
A good person focuses on appreciating others rather than seeking validation for themselves.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of humility and recognition of others' qualities. It suggests that a truly good individual does not seek acknowledgment for their own merits but instead is concerned about appreciating and understanding the merits of those around them, promoting a culture of mutual respect and kindness.
In practice
In a team meeting, one can quote this to encourage colleagues to recognize each other's contributions.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
Many people resented my impatience and honesty, but I never cared about acceptance as much as I cared about respect.
Many things prevent knowledge, including the obscurity of the subject and the brevity of human life
In my mind, numbers and words are far more than squiggles of ink on a page. They have form, color, texture and so on. They come alive to me, which is why as a young child I thought of them as my 'friends.'
We often need to lose sight of our priorities in order to see them.
Those who have not found their true wealth, which is the radiant joy of Being and the deep, unshakable peace that comes with it, are beggars, even if they have great material wealth. They are looking outside for scraps of pleasure or fulfillment, for validation, security, or love, while they have a treasure within that not only includes all those things but is infinitely greater than anything the world can offer.
The melancholy joys of evils pass'd, For he who much has suffer'd, much will know.
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