I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
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Both happiness and unhappiness depend on perception
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our feelings of happiness or unhappiness are influenced by how we perceive our circumstances.
Marcus Aurelius suggests that our emotional states, whether positive or negative, are not solely determined by external events but rather by our interpretation of those events. This highlights the power of perception in shaping our experiences, emphasizing the notion that two people can experience the same situation yet feel differently based on their outlook.
Themes
HappinessPerceptionEmotionsPhilosophyMindset
In practice
Example use cases
In a talk about resilience, one might say, 'As Marcus Aurelius reminds us, both happiness and unhappiness depend on perception.'
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