To get away from one's working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one's self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change.
Charles Horton CooleyRead
We have no higher life that is really apart from other people. It is by imagining them that our personality is built up; to be without the power of imagining them is to be a low-grade idiot.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our sense of self is deeply connected to our relationships with others, and imagination plays a crucial role in shaping our identity.
Charles Horton Cooley emphasizes that an individual's higher life and personality are intrinsically linked to their relationships and interactions with others. He argues that the ability to imagine the experiences and emotions of others is vital for personal development, suggesting that a lack of empathy reduces a person's intellectual and emotional capacity.
Themes
IdentityEmpathyRelationshipsSelfImagination
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of community, one could quote this to emphasize the interconnectedness of individuals.
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By recognizing a favorable opinion of yourself, and taking pleasure in it, you in a measure give yourself and your peace of mind into the keeping of another, of whose attitude you can never be certain. You have a new source of doubt and apprehension.
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