To get away from one's working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one's self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change.
Charles Horton CooleyRead
The imaginations which people have of one another are the solid facts of society.
Interpretation
People's perceptions of each other shape the reality of society.
This quote by Charles Horton Cooley emphasizes the importance of social perceptions in constructing reality. Our imaginations and beliefs about other individuals influence societal relationships and dynamics, suggesting that how we view each other can create substantial impacts on social interactions and structures.
In practice
During a seminar on social psychology, this quote can illustrate how perceptions influence group behavior.
To get away from one's working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one's self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change.
If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity, and even the good in him is hardly accepted.
We have no higher life that is really apart from other people. It is by imagining them that our personality is built up; to be without the power of imagining them is to be a low-grade idiot.
Each man must have his I; it is more necessary to him than bread; and if he does not find scope for it within the existing institutions he will be likely to make trouble.
The thing that moves us to pride or shame is not the mere mechanical reflection of ourselves but the imagined effect of this reflection upon another's mind.
By recognizing a favorable opinion of yourself, and taking pleasure in it, you in a measure give yourself and your peace of mind into the keeping of another, of whose attitude you can never be certain. You have a new source of doubt and apprehension.
In explaining any puzzling Washington phenomenon, always choose stupidity over conspiracy, incompetence over cunning. Anything else gives them too much credit.
I do not know if you remember the tale of the girl who saves the ship under mutiny by sitting on the powder barrel with her lighted torch... and all the time knowing that it is empty? This has seemed to me a charming image of the women of my time. There they were, keeping the world in order... by sitting on the mystery of life, and knowing themselves that there was no mystery.
Hold on, my friends, to the Constitution of your country and the government established under it. Leave evils which exist in some parts of the country, but which are beyond your control, to the all-wise direction of an over-ruling Providence. Perform those duties which are present, plain and positive. Respect the laws of your country.
Each minute of life should be a divine quest.
Everything that is beautiful and noble is the product of reason and calculation.
What shall we think of a well-adjusted slave?
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