You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Elizabeth GilbertRead
I'm choosing happiness over suffering, I know I am. I'm making space for the unknown future to fill up my life with yet-to-come surprises.
Interpretation
Choosing happiness allows us to welcome new experiences without being weighed down by past suffering.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gilbert emphasizes the active decision to prioritize happiness instead of dwelling on suffering. By choosing to embrace positivity, she cultivates an openness to new experiences and surprises that the future may hold, suggesting that a positive mindset can lead to a more fulfilling life.
In practice
In a motivational speech about resilience and positivity.
You know the old adage: Plant an expectation, reap a disappointment.
Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
I had always been taught that the pursuit of happiness was my natural (even national) birthright. It is the emotional trademark of my culture to seek happiness. Not just any kind of happiness, either, but profound happiness, even soaring happiness. And what could possibly bring a person more soaring happiness than romantic love.
When I tried this morning, after an hour or so of unhappy thinking, to dip back into my meditation, I took a new idea with me: compassion. I asked my heart if it could please infuse my soul with a more generous perspective on my mind's workings. Instead of thinking that I was a failure, could I perhaps accept that I am only a human being--and a normal one, at that?
And when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt - this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.
But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilling yearnings.
There are three things, and three things only, that can lift the pain of mortality and ease the ravages of life. These are wine, women and song.
The best things in life aren't things.
You will never be happier than you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.
Happiness is the most important thing in the world, without it, you live a life of depression.
As I get, I give. Giving as you get is critical. It has everything to do with being happy for yourself, and making others happy is the cause of making yourself happy, and itβs the cycle of giving and getting.
But I don't think of the future, or the past, I feast on the moment. This is the secret of happiness, but only reached now in middle age.
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