Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
EpictetusRead
It is impossible that happiness, and yearning for what is not present, should ever be united.
Interpretation
Happiness cannot coexist with a desire for what one lacks.
In this quote, Epictetus emphasizes the idea that true happiness comes from embracing what we have rather than longing for what we do not possess. The yearning for absent elements in our lives creates a sense of dissatisfaction that hinders our ability to experience joy and contentment in the present moment.
In practice
In a motivational speech about finding joy in the present.
Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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The people have a right to the truth as they have a right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
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There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness.
Living in a state of gratitude is the gateway to grace.
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The test of happiness is gratitude.
When I see myself as an old woman, I just think about being happy. And hopefully, I'll still be fly.
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