Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Brene BrownRead
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.
Interpretation
Embracing vulnerability is key to experiencing true joy and happiness in life.
Brene Brown emphasizes the importance of living wholeheartedly, which involves being open and vulnerable. By allowing oneself to soften and embrace joy, individuals can fully experience happiness rather than holding back due to fear or societal expectations.
In practice
Using this quote in a motivational speech about the importance of embracing emotions.
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
I think our capacity for wholeheartedness can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted. It means engaging with the world from a place of vulnerability and worthiness.
Men walk this tightrope where any sign of weakness illicits shame, and so they're afraid to make themselves vulnerable for fear of looking weak.
I hesitate to use a pathologizing label, but underneath the so-called narcissistic personality is definitely shame and the paralyzing fear of being ordinary.
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.
Vulnerability is basically uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.
I am the happiest creature in the world. Perhaps other people have said so before, but not one with such justice. I am happier even than Jane; she only smiles, I laugh.
Happiness is not by chance, but by choice.
Happiness is not best achieved by those who seek it directly.
Now,I'm no scientist,but I know what endorphins are. They're tiny little magical elves that swim through your blood stream and tell funny jokes to each other. When they reach your brain,you hear what they're saying and that boosts your health and happiness. "Knock Knock... Who's There?.. Little endorphin... Little endorphin who?... Little Endorphin Annie." And then the endorphins laugh and then you laugh. See? Its Science.
When we fulfill our function, which is to truly love ourselves and share love with others, then true happiness sets in.
Turn your attention for a while away from the worries and anxieties. Remind yourself of all your many blessings.
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