The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
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Marriage is a bribe to make a housekeeper think she's a householder.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that marriage can sometimes be a way to superficially elevate one's status in a domestic role.
Thornton Wilder's quote humorously critiques the institution of marriage by implying that it serves to deceive a housekeeper into believing she holds a more significant status as a householder. This suggests a commentary on the dynamics of domestic roles and the social constructions of status and responsibility within marriage, hinting at the underlying complexities of relationships and societal expectations.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsHousekeeperStatusDomestic
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about the roles within a family, one might quote Wilder to illustrate traditional views on marriage.
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