Labeling and diagnosis is a catastrophic way to communicate. Telling other people what's wrong with them greatly reduces, almost to zero, the probability that we're going to get what we're after.
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All that has been integrated into NVC has been known for centuries about consciousness, language, communication skills, and use of power that enable us to maintain a perspective of empathy for ourselves and others, even under trying conditions.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the long-standing knowledge about empathy and communication that helps us navigate difficulties.
Marshall B. Rosenberg highlights that the principles of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) draw from centuries of understanding regarding consciousness, language, and communication. This knowledge equips us to cultivate empathy towards ourselves and others, particularly in challenging situations, fostering better relationships and social harmony.
Themes
EmpathyCommunicationUnderstandingConsciousnessRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop on effective communication, this quote could be used to stress the importance of empathy when engaging with participants.
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