One can imagine the look the two lovers exchanged; it was like a flame, for virtuous lovers have not a shred of hypocrisy.
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Old maids, having never bent their temper or their lives to other lives and other tempers, as woman's destiny requires, have for the most part a mania for making everything about them bend to them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that women who remain single often develop a self-centered attitude due to not having to adapt to others in their lives.
In this quote, Balzac reflects on the lives of women who have not conformed to societal expectations of marriage and partnership. He suggests that their independence and lack of compromise can lead to a tendency to expect the world around them to cater to their desires, highlighting both the struggles of traditional roles and the potential consequences of independence.
Themes
IndependenceRelationshipsSingleSelf-CenteredWomanManipulation
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used in a discussion about modern relationships and the challenges of independent living.
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